Edited By
Lila Starling

As more people adapt to remote work, a dilemma has emerged for those newly initiated into certain spiritual practices. Iyawos, or individuals who have recently crowned, must now confront the challenges of adhering to traditional rules while participating in video calls, leading to a broader conversation about practicality versus tradition.
With remote work becoming the norm, many Iyawos are grappling with how to handle the traditional ban on looking at oneโs reflection.
One individual asked: "Is there an exception for practical purposes during video calls?"
People have shared various strategies and perspectives:
Follow Godparent Guidance: One commenter emphasized, "You just deal with it as your godparent tells you." They noted that avoidance of mirrors is manageable if one is mindful.
Feature Adjustments: "During my year, I turned off 'self-view' on Zoom so I couldnโt look at myself but was still present," shared another person. This approach allows adherence to traditions while engaging in necessary work.
Balancing Spirituality and Work: "We need to find the right balance between following taboos and being a functional part of society," reflected a third commenter. Suggestions included turning off the camera entirely or adjusting settings so they can't see themselves.
"Same is true with cameras. Turn off the self view just do it as if it were a phone call."
The responses show a mix of practicality and respect for tradition. Many people acknowledge the challenges, but they seem to prioritize functionality in their daily lives.
โ Adjusting Expectations: Individuals discuss practical work-around for video calls while remaining compliant with spiritual rules.
๐ Adaptation is Key: Turning off self-view is a popular tactic, emphasizing the need for compromise.
๐ฌ "It's not realistic to avoid these places" - Highlighting a common sentiment.
As the landscape of remote work continues to evolve, itโs clear that balancing spiritual practices with modern demands poses ongoing challenges for Iyawos. The communityโs adaptability may pave the way for a more pragmatic approach, ultimately shifting how traditions are observed in a digital age.