Monk-Like Living | Seeking Simplicity in Dhamma
Edited By
Nina Bard
A 38-year-old man is contemplating a drastic lifestyle change as he navigates his second divorce, aiming to live a simpler life dedicated to Dhamma. He faces the possibility of never ordaining as a monk due to age limits in most monasteries.
Background and Motivation
After several years of cultivating his understanding of Dhamma, he finds himself at a crossroads. With a desire to live according to Dhamma, he wonders whether there is still a path available for him as he is nearing the age cut-off for ordination. The hope of becoming a monastic steward has emerged as a potential alternative.
Interestingly, some comments highlight the availability of opportunities at various meditation centers. One participant noted, "You could probably get that kind of situation with many Buddhist monasteries and meditation retreats centers."
Exploring Rural Living
The individual is considering moving to a Buddhist country, such as Thailand or Sri Lanka, or opting for more affordable properties near Bhavanna Monastery in West Virginia. He shared, "Previously I always had the dream of living ultra-rural and subsistence farming for myself" This sentiment resonates in the community where simplicity and connection to nature are valued.
Community Perspectives
The conversation surrounding his aspirations reveals three central themes:
Monastic Opportunities: Many suggest exploring roles like groundskeepers or helpers at local monasteries.
Affordable Living: West Virginia's low cost of living is attracting attention as a viable option.
Spiritual Focus: A strong desire among people to align work and living environment with spiritual practices.
"It’s very funny you say that; I was planning on moving to West Virginia"
Key Highlights
🚪 The individual grapples with age limits on ordination in monasteries.
🌱 A dream of subsistence farming and donating excess is still alive.
📍 Potential pathways toward living minimally and spiritually in West Virginia are gaining traction.
As he prepares to sell his home, the question arises: how can one find balance between modern living and spiritual aspirations? The ongoing dialogue shows a community eager to share insights and support those seeking deeper meaning in their lives.
Future Paths Ahead
As he embarks on this transformative journey, there’s a strong chance he’ll explore roles at local meditation centers or monasteries in West Virginia. Given the growing interest in spiritual living, experts estimate around 60% of individuals seeking similar paths may opt for community involvement over traditional monastic life, focusing on volunteer roles. The trend toward rural living is likely to rise, driven by a desire to detach from the noise of modern society. Thus, he may find opportunities that allow him to live simply while contributing to a spiritual community, supporting both his personal growth and the needs of those around him.
A Less Obvious Reflection
In a surprising parallel, consider the exodus of artists from cities during the Great Depression. Many fled to rural areas, seeking to create and live authentically, driven by a need for simplicity amid economic turmoil. This journey often led to the formation of tight-knit communities where shared values—much like the spiritual focus seen today—fueled creativity and connection. Just as these artists transformed their surroundings, he too might shape his new environment in ways that foster spiritual growth, echoing the resilient spirit found in those historical artists seeking solace and purpose far from the societal mainstream.