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My honey jar rotting: seeking sweet love advice

Honey Jar Controversy | Deterioration Sparks User Debate

By

Aisha Patel

Feb 15, 2026, 09:31 AM

Edited By

Fiona Kelly

Updated

Feb 16, 2026, 12:11 AM

2 minutes of reading

A close-up of a honey jar showing signs of mold and decay, symbolizing a failed love spell

A recent discussion on forums highlights a user's troubling experiences with a honey jar ritual, leading to a breakup. After just recently noticing the jar's contents had changed, they suspect a link between the jar's deterioration and their ex-boyfriend blocking them.

Context of the Ritual

Months back, a user crafted a honey jar filled with honey, lavender oil, cinnamon, a petition paper, and a red candle. Intended to sweeten the relationship with their ex-boyfriend, the jar's contents turned clumpy and watery after being shaken. Following this, the user faced a sudden communication blackout from their ex.

Compounded Conflict

Shortly after the jar showed signs of spoilage, the user noted, "I believe itโ€™s connected, just my opinion." This has sparked varied opinions among community members about the efficacy of such rituals. Some worry that the jar's state directly impacts relationship status.

"Some people choose to flush their jarsโ€”do so at your plumbingโ€™s own risk," advised one participant, reflecting a common sentiment about proper disposal.

Voices from the Community

The advice given offers varied approaches:

  • Dispose or Renew?: Some support tossing the jar entirely while others suggest attempting a fresh mixture.

  • Preventative Measures: A few users recommend adding alcohol to the honey to avoid spoilage.

  • Maintaining Rituals: Others argue that clumpy paper is common and doesnโ€™t necessarily mean the jar is ineffective.

One commenter stated, "A petition doesnโ€™t need to be in preserved condition to work." This contrasts sharply with those believing any visible change signals failure.

Key Insights and Takeaways

  • ๐ŸŒŸ Users emphasize that honey does not actually spoil, but may look different over time.

  • ๐Ÿ’” A strong connection between jar condition and relationship outcomes has users searching for clarity.

  • โœจ Thereโ€™s a push for fresh rituals, with suggestions including the addition of rose petals for a new honey jar.

This fiery debate has stirred thoughts on how external factors can influence relationship rituals. As this topic gains traction, expect further discussions and experimentation within the community, challenging the belief in the effectiveness of traditional methods by suggesting innovative tweaks instead.